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WHAT'S YOUR KINK?Sexual fantasy is an integral part of everyone's lives. There are a lot of avenues toward a fun and spicy fantasy life, and one of the nicest ones is both print and image erotica, either in traditional ink on paper, or the electronic form.To find erotica, though, you almost always have to sift through a lot of jazz to get to where you want to go. After all, the internet has tons of pornographic content, so finding it is easy. Erotica, though is a little harder to find. And for the sake of argument, let's agree that pornography ALWAYS elicits erotic thoughts, but erotica doesn't always have the same goal or results as the hard-core stuff. You can decide better than I can why erotica interests you - for me, it's a nice adjunct to real sex, makes me think and feel, and sometimes, I just want a good masturbation fantasy. Erotica does this well. It's sexy, full of mood and emotion, and it can be just as explicit as porn, sometimes even more so. But the payoff is worth it, I think. And you do too, I suspect, or you probably wouldn't be at this site in the first place. Just as there are many roads that lead to Rome, so do many aspects of our own reality come into play to get us turned on, horny, excited, needy - lots of terms, too! And that's what is so beautiful about good erotica. Erotica, to me, is defined as sexually arousing material that touches one on deeper levels than pornography usually can. If I can compare all this to a trip, erotica is a roadmap of possible destinations, while pornography is a pre-packaged tour. If you're in a hurry, XXX photos are just the ticket, but if you have the time and energy, a good, sexy poem might be more appropriate. So, here you are at an erotic site, and the images, poems and fiction you find here give you a wonderful and very sexy list of possible trips. Looking at the Tim Phillips photos certainly whets the appetite for fantasy, and you can go anywhere after that. What you find sexy, you get to explore in your own terms -- with your own imagination -- unfettered by someone else's vision to get in the way. In other words, you don't get a prepackaged sex fantasy to get in the way. So, what is sexy? What I find a turn-on you might yawn and wonder about. Likewise, the perfect fantasy situation for you might crack me up, or leave me wondering about your sanity or at least your mental health. That goes for your dream woman/man, sexual position, hair and makeup style, foods, romantic locale -- beach or forest? The list just goes on and on. Most important is what YOU find sexy. For me, as much as I like your standard centerfold-type stuff -- and sometimes the darker, more kinky stuff - some of the things that turn me on are kind of pedestrian, and might not do a thing for you. Just so I can't be accused of not giving up some information about myself, I'll make a confession as to the sexiest outfit a woman can wear. To me, it's a pair of Levis. You can keep your little black dresses and designers outfits, and certainly the heels and stockings outfits that porn actresses prefer to fuck in (and, I imagine, those 8" spikes are pretty bad for the bed). So, blue jeans and a t-shirt - baby or not, I like 'em both - that's sexy to me. To complete the outfit, just white socks on her feet - no "fuckme" shoes with stiletto heels. Perhaps that kind of outfit - the clean, natural look we all grew up wearing -- also moves into the territory this web site is devoted to? I'll save that for another time! Just a pretty girl with little or no makeup, a pair of blue denim jeans - add a pony tail -- and I am very, very happy. For you, it might be a leopard-print thong and fishnets, or whatever else happens to be under the sun. So, that's one of my kinks. Is it a kink? It's erotica, so I get to decide. Besides, I have my fantasy girl all dressed up, and now I get to create a setting and get her out of those jeans. I better get busy, so I'll finish up now. Have a great day and a great fantasy, and if your partner happens to be a mermaid or whatever, well, that is pretty sexy, too. © Dane M. Donato, 2000. Photograph © Tim Phillips, 1995. |
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